Ask any guy if he thinks sex is weird or wrong and I guarantee he’ll say no almost instantly. They watch porn, think dirty thoughts, and visually undress women on a regular basis.
Yet the second they speak to a girl they’re interested in, they try to hide and suppress their desires.
Subconsciously, they feel guilty or ashamed for even thinking about sex.
But time and time again I see guys who have hundreds of boring, platonic texts with girls that go nowhere. They have in-person conversations that make women drier than the Sahara.
Pack your bags, you’re headed to the friend zone.
What’s worse is when society (especially other men) tries to tell them that flirting is somehow disrespectful or cringe. These are the same guys who “slut shame” women for expressing their sexuality.
It’s all insecurity and lies, and I’m here to prove it.
Understanding Women’s Desires
Here are some stats on female sexuality:
- Romance novels are the most popular literary genre comprising of 55% of all the paperbacks sold. As I’ve said before, women aren’t reading these books for the outstanding writing. (Source)
- 50 Shades of Grey, an erotic novel about a virgin who becomes a submissive sex slave, is now the fastest selling paperback in history, surpassing Harry Potter. It has sold 10 million copies in 37 countries all under one year. (Source)
- 76% of women in couples watch porn and 4 out of 5 like to roleplay and dress up. Over 50% enjoy using sex toys as well. (Source)
- 40% of young women have tried anal sex with 1 in 3 having it within the last month. 94% of women who had anal sex orgasmed in their last encounter, a rate much higher than just vaginal intercourse. (Source)
- 89% of women masturbate, 22% of them daily, while 48% of them do it at least once a week. 53% of those women who masturbate use vibrators while doing so. (Source)
- 47% of women admit to sexting. 31% of women have had sex with 2 or more guys in one day. Almost 1 in 5 women have slept with 3 or more guys in a single week. (Source)
- 62% of women admitted to having rape fantasies (being overpowered/forced/taken against their will). They are the third most popular sexual fantasy for women. (Source)
- Only 48% of people are satisfied with their sex lives. 2/3 of us feel we don’t have sex often enough and 48% of women have faked an orgasm. (Source)
We Are Still Just Mammals
Sex is the most primal thing we do.
It’s straight animalistic. It’s a penis going into a vagina repeatedly while people are sweating, moaning, and coming.
Women say very dirty things and many enjoy being pinned down and taken hard.
Females are not the fragile, innocent flowers on the high pedestal where you place them. You need to turn them on and they need to think about having sex with you before anything can happen.
Flirting and wanting sex isn’t disrespectful, it’s a natural part of the dating game.
Don’t give into the guilty voice in your head: women are sexual beings just like us. If you can’t accept that, you won’t have the sex life you truly desire.
The majority of women are dissatisfied with the sex they’re having. They want more of it, in more exciting ways, with more passionate partners.
Are you going to be the man who gives them what they want?
Sex is normal. Sex is healthy. Sex is good…really good.