Give me 30 minutes
to transform your dating life.

A coach who knows most dating advice sucks. I show high-achieving men how to develop authentic confidence, attract more dates, and create real, lasting change.

Have You Ever Wished You Could…

Talk to attractive women with the same comfort, ease and presence as you do your best friends?

Turn a room of strangers into one that feels like it’s full of old friends in just a few hours?

Express your true personality around attractive women…without needing to psyche yourself up in the mirror first?

Stop feeling frozen by the fear, anxiety, and “analysis paralysis” that controls your actions around new people?

No longer dwell on that thing you said to a girl for hours, days, or even weeks after the fact?

I Know These Problems Suck…

These were the exact issues I had to figure out by myself over a decade ago.

Trying to solve them on my own felt hopeless. Even worse, dating advice for men never made me feel like I could attract women and also be my genuine self.

For a while, I convinced myself that I was S.O.L. with dating because I wasn’t born naturally charming, funny, or confident.

But probably to the surprise of many women I failed to impress back then, I am now a dating and confidence coach. Over the past decade, I’ve taught 1,000+ men what I wished someone had taught me:

How to build lasting self-esteem, a bulletproof mindset, and the social skills to unlock a healthy and robust dating life.

My Honest And Effective Approach

Through frameworks and exercises I’ve developed and honed with countless clients, I’ve seen over and over how any man can learn to present their most-charismatic self, naturally attract women, and become the cheerful, carefree guy everyone loves to be around.

I teach all of this without

The Types Of Men Who See The Best Results

I work with smart, high-achieving—and often analytical—men. Many already have great careers, eat right, work out, and have close male friends.

But my coaching is not for everyone—I work with men who are ready to be a more assertive, playful, and communicative person. Funnily enough, women find that deeply sexy, too.

My Coaching Is For Men Who…

  1. Have respect for women, even if they’re looking for something casual.
  2. Wish they could expand their romantic and social lives at-will.
  3. Want the confidence to talk and flirt with beautiful women in a genuine, natural manner.
  4. Crave the conversation skills needed to connect with interesting new people in any situation.
  5. Desire healthy relationships that make them feel secure and connected.
  6. Are ready for a big step in their personal development, and are willing to put in the time and effort.

My Coaching Is Not For Men Who…

  1. Have a desire to get back at women, use them, or believe all women are shallow.
  2. Are content with settling for less and not investing in their friendships.
  3. Want canned lines to guarantee success without developing honest social skills.
  4. Think they’re doomed to awkward interactions and can never learn to be charismatic.
  5. Chase after partners who treat them poorly just so they aren’t alone.
  6. Don’t want to challenge themselves to grow and want quick fixes instead.

The Skills You’ll Develop

  1. Become A Well-Rounded Man

    Create a compelling lifestyle and expand your social circle.

  2. Develop Magnetic Charisma

    Flirt effortlessly and create powerful sexual connections.

  3. Fill Up Your Contacts (and Calendar)

    Get more phone numbers and actually turn them into dates.

  4. Create and Maintain New Relationships

    Develop healthy relationships built on trust and respect.

  5. Approach and Attract Any Woman

    Make unforgettable first impressions with beautiful women anytime, anywhere.

  6. Talk to Anyone, Anywhere

    Conquer approach anxiety and start conversations without even realizing it.

  7. Become Socially Stronger

    Be that charming conversationalist who always knows what to say.

  8. Never Feel Walked Over Again

    Become a true leader and shed insecure “Nice Guy” qualities that drive people away.

  9. Unleash Your Authentic, Unapologetic Self

    Turn vulnerability and honesty into real, lasting confidence.

  10. Have Fun Growing and Learning!

    Learn to enjoy self-development and building yourself into the man you’ve always wanted to be.

  11. Overcome Sexual Shame or Inexperience

    Regain control over negative emotions like fear, anxiety, jealousy, anger, and resentment.

  12. Build Authentic Confidence, Inside and Out

    Develop strong body language and eye contact that naturally attracts.

How Does The Coaching Process Work?

Free Consultation
(Phone Or Video—30 Minutes)

To ensure we are a good match for each other, we’ll first dive into your roadblocks, needs, and goals over a casual introductory call.

This time is simply for you to share what’s going on—I don’t try and manipulate or scare you into working with me, and I’ll never pressure you into a program you wouldn’t see results with.

Decide On A Package Together

Once you feel excited and see the value in tackling your sticking points together, we’ll discuss which coaching package is best for you:

  • Remote coaching via phone or video—additional email and text coaching support included.
  • In-person coaching in the Boston area and worldwide.

From there, each option is further personalized for you, the client.

Become A Better You

During our coaching session, I’ll teach you the theory needed to achieve your goals, provide feedback on your real-world experiences, and answer all your questions.

At the end of each call, I’ll recommend exercises and goals for you to implement before our next session. Then I’ll email your tailored action steps and any helpful materials.

You can use your email and text support in between sessions to get continued guidance and hit your goals.

These Are Just Some Of The Men I’ve Helped


Burlington, VT

“We just celebrated our first 6 months! Your advice has helped me tremendously. I feel better socializing, my social circle is more in line with what I want, I work on my self esteem by investing in myself, I determine my own value now instead of letting others do so.

I’ve got a fantastic relationship built on honesty and communication. Thanks again man, genuinely honestly thank you. The world can be a confusing place but what you do truly helps people in the best way. You da real MVP ;D”


Las Vegas, NV

“With Nick’s guidance and some hard work my life has been completely transformed in much less than six months. His expertise made dating go from terrifying, to fun and easy.

The real surprise though was that this new found confidence improved my friendships, career, interactions with strangers, and more. I can’t recommend him enough, but be ready to get out of your comfort zone to see real results, you won’t regret it!”


San Jose, CA

“I went from thinking I was completely undesirable to women to becoming the best version of myself, tremendously improving my social skills, dating many beautiful, smart and fun girls and starting a serious relationship with a wonderful one.

Nick has a really good eye to help you with your sticking points. He gave me a much deeper understanding on how to approach situations related to relationships and dating and I am extremely thankful for that. He’s a great guy and you learn a lot just by interacting with him.”

Mark D

Naperville, IL

“Nick gave me great advice on how to ask out a girl I had been good friends with for a while. I decided to pull the trigger and go for it. We ended up dating for a few very happy years and she is now my fiance! We are getting married in September and we could not be happier. Nick’s advice was just what I needed to hear to gain the confidence to man up and be honest with both her and myself.

Thank you so much, man! You are amazing at what you do and I hope you continue to help others like you have helped me.”

Greg T

Philadelphia, PA

“Dating today can be a confusing jumble of inconsistent or outright contradictory experiences, signals, and advice. What Nick excels at is pulling back that veil and cutting through the bullshit to not only give you clear, manageable, actionable advice, but an understanding of how and why that can make a difference in your life.

Nick won’t give you that perfect pickup line or magic formula, but what he can give you is a sense of understanding, direction, and control over your own fate.“

There Are Lots Of Dating Coaches. Why Work With Me?

I’ve coached thousands of men to conquer anxiety and gain lasting social confidence. Many of them go on to find girlfriends or wives, land their dream jobs, and become truly confident.

But honestly…you don’t need me.
There is more than enough free information on my site and out in the world to lead you to real growth.

However, I know from experience that trying to apply what you read on your own is no substitute for working with a professional who can pinpoint your hurdles and accelerate your personal growth.

We’ll achieve this through:

Analyze your sticky points


Over 15 years and 1000+ clients as a coach means I know exactly what advice and actions are going to achieve your goals in the fastest, least stressful way possible.

Tailored Feedback

The right advice can make or break important moments and connections. Personalized exercises and ongoing insight allow you to feel prepared for and make the most of any dating or social situation.


Stay on track with my personal support. New material and fresh ideas to practice consistently means you’ll build strong, healthy habits.

Ultimately, my goal is not to get you phone numbers, dates, or the courage to take some fashion risks.

It’s to teach you to become self-reliant, to continue growing on your own, and to genuinely love the person you both are now and that’ll you become.

Your Transformation Begins With A Quick Conversation

Let’s have a free, 100% confidential phone or Skype consultation (up to 30 minutes) to discuss how we can best work together.

During Our 1-On-1 Call, We’ll:

Analyze your
sticking points

I’ll help you understand what’s holding you back with women.

Design a plan of action

Concrete advice that gets you the girl you want.

Leverage my 15 years coaching

Pick the brain of a dating coach who has seen everything.

Level-up your love life

Level-Up Your Love Life

Once our call is finished, there’s zero pressure to commit.

Because I want you to feel excited and see the value in tackling these challenges together, I even encourage you to try out any advice or strategies I mention in our call out on your own.

If you decide you don’t need a coach after all, that’s great!

But if you’d like an experienced coach to lean on, be guided by, and check-in with every step of the way, I’m excited to walk you through building a dating life your past-self won’t even recognize.

I look forward to working with—and for—you soon.

All the best,