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Breaking News: Women Think About Sex, Too

May 6th, 2011 by Nick Notas 3 Comments

Yes, it’s true…our sources have confirmed that women do, in fact, think about sex. What’s even more astonishing is that it seems they actually enjoy sexual intercourse with partners they like and trust. This breaking news has sent shockwaves throughout the internet community.

In all seriousness, I’m writing this article because of a consistent problem guys have been asking me for help with. “I’ve been hanging out with this girl for X time (weeks, months, even years) and nothing has happened. What am I doing wrong?” Then when I ask them how often they flirt, they hesitate and usually say “Never.”

Excuses, excuses — the moment isn’t right, they don’t want to screw things up, they don’t want to be a pervert, they’d rather let it happen “naturally”, or they want her to make the first move.  A bunch of reasons why they haven’t created sexual chemistry and have tried every way possible to avoid it. Guys, if you want a girl to think of you as more than a friend and be attracted to you, you’ve got to make the moves.

Women think about sex more than you know. The most popular women’s magazines are flooded with front page headlines like “10 Ways to Make Him Explode” and “How to Have Hotter Sex Now!” The most popular selling-books are romance novels that go into detail about how the man takes the woman in a passionate session. All Twilight does is create an insane amount of sexual tension for young women!

Unless she’s a virgin (and even then often times), she thinks about sex on a regular basis. And if she’s had it before, she’s been in the throes of ecstasy, with bodies sweating and voices screaming with pleasure. Sex is primal and dirty in all the beautiful ways. She’s not the innocent flower you have built up in your head.

What separates a friendship from a romantic relationship? Intimacy. Before a woman is going to consider you as a romantic partner she needs to feel that visceral attraction. She needs to experience the sexual chemistry and tension that drives her wild. She needs to imagine you together and things heating up. Bottom line: she needs to think about having sex with you.

You want to start having more success with women? Then you can’t be afraid of getting a little flirtatious. You can’t be afraid of hitting on her and telling her how sexy she looks. You have to be comfortable touching women in a more intimate way, getting closer to them, teasing them, and heating things up. You have to get her emotions stirring.

If you don’t show your interest in women, you aren’t going to get very far in dating. Don’t treat the girls you like as just another friend. Embrace your sexual side as a man.

  1. Fred Tracy on May 8, 2011

    Great article!

    I love the picture, LOL.

    And it’s absolutely true, too. Women are perhaps MORE sexual than men. Multiple orgasms and all that included. It’s just that some men are afraid of really going for it.

    Personally, I’m not really that smooth, but I’ve gotten accustomed to being brave when I need to. If I want to take things to the next level, I find that I almost always can, just because I make it 100% CLEAR to the woman what my intentions are.

    That in and of itself is a turn on. Don’t be afraid to go a little caveman from time to time. Even if she says no, that kind of behavior is going to trip a wire in her brain that says yes, yes, yes!

    • Nick on May 8, 2011

      Haha, I thought the pic fit well 🙂

      You said it perfectly and I agree that women may be more sexual than men at heart. I think somewhere along the line men have become afraid to express their sexual side, and that needs to change!

      Yeah, you don’t have to be that “smooth” if you’re upfront about your intentions. Nothing screams confidence like being forward with what you want and going after it. It takes a lot of guts and women recognize that instantly.

      Thanks for the great comment!

  2. Chiara on May 13, 2011

    Fantastic. A man blog worth following, finally. I’ll be keeping you around.