Here’s a testimonial from a recent retreat client. For more video testimonials, see the retreats section below.
“With Nick’s guidance and some hard work my life has been completely transformed in much less than six months. His expertise made dating go from terrifying, to fun and easy.
The real surprise though was that this new found confidence improved my friendships, career, interactions with strangers, and more. I can’t recommend him enough, but be ready to get out of your comfort zone to see real results, you won’t regret it!”
Kyle, Las Vegas, NV
“I met a girl that I really hit it off with, thanks in large part to all the things I learned from you. We just had a little celebration of our first 6 months dating last weekend! Your advice has thus far helped me tremendously on many levels. I feel better socializing, my social circle is more in line with what I want, I work on my self esteem by investing in myself, I determine my own value now instead of letting others do so.
I’ve got a fantastic relationship built on honesty and communication. I really can’t thank you enough. It isn’t just advice to get a girlfriend, at least not for me, it was advice on how to be what I had always wanted to be but didn’t know how to be, a good guy (not a nice guy). Thanks again man, genuinely honestly thank you. The world can be a confusing place but what you do truly helps people in the best way. You da real MVP ;D”
David, Burlington, VT
“I started working with Nick after breaking up with a woman I thought I would marry. Nick blended humor, deep insights from psychology and behavioral science, as well as an intuitive understanding of how humans work to help me build an amazing love life. He taught me how to naturally connect with everyone from the lonely looking barista at my neighborhood cafe, to the stunning woman standing next to me at the bookstore.
What stands out about Nick is his wildly compassionate (and effective) approach to helping people get the results that they want in their love lives. He’s patient, encouraging, and funny. More importantly, he’s very easy to open up to and a masterful teacher.
Nick helped me be my best self. I went from struggling to find women who I truly connected with, to being the guy in my circle who everyone else calls for advice about their love lives. Let me make this easy for you: if you’re thinking of working with Nick, do it. Your future self (and your next lover and all the people you interact with along the way) will be deeply grateful.”
Jason Connell, Professional Speaker and Coach
“I went through a two-year process from a point in which I thought I was a good guy who just happened to be completely undesirable to women to a point in which I became the best version of myself, tremendously improved my social skills, dated many beautiful, smart and fun girls and started a serious relationship with a wonderful one.
Nick was the single most relevant resource in helping me improve. His coaching will push you to make efforts to improve yourself and meet your goals. He has a really good eye to help you with your sticking points. He gave me a much deeper understanding on how to approach situations related to relationships and dating and I am extremely thankful for that. Finally, he’s a great guy and you learn a lot just by interacting with him.”
Henry, San Jose, CA
“Nick gave me great advice on how to ask out a girl I had been good friends with for a while. I decided to pull the trigger and go for it. We ended up dating for a few very happy years and she is now my fiance! We are getting married in September and we could not be happier. Nick’s advice was just what I needed to hear to gain the confidence to man up and be honest with both her and myself.
Thank you so much, man! You are amazing at what you do and I hope you continue to help others like you have helped me.”
Mark D, Naperville, IL
“Dating today can be a confusing jumble of inconsistent or outright contradictory experiences, signals, and advice. What Nick excels at is pulling back that veil and cutting through the bullshit to not only give you clear, manageable, actionable advice, but an understanding of how and why that advice can make a difference in your life. He won’t give you that perfect pickup line or any magic formula, but what he can give you is a sense of understanding, direction, and above all, control over your own fate.“
Greg T, Philadelphia, PA
“Nick is different than other dating coaches – he actually listens. He gets to know you and makes every piece of advice unique to your situation. He doesn’t use a cheat sheet, either. He strays from the typical mainstream crap and actually gives you advice worth listening to. I don’t know how he does it, but he knows exactly how women want to be treated.”
Chiara Mazzucco, Writer and Self-Improvement Coach, Bold Self
“Nick has wonderful insights into the realm of dating. He’s able to see and help men and women succeed at dating. He knows what he’s talking about and can explain things with his own voice, so you know he’s not a copycat dating coach.”
Alli Walker, Cincinnati, OH
“Nick has a keen eye for his clients’ areas in greatest need of improvement, and a genuine passion for helping men improve their results with women and dating.”
Jack Bennet, Boston, MA
“Your advice turned me around. I went from the shy guy at the party/bar to the outgoing one. My friends can’t believe the difference! I’m now the one the guys go to on advice on approaching girls, it’s kind of nice.
Anyways, I just wanted to say thanks. You’ve changed my life in more ways than one. If you are ever passing through the Toronto area, let me know and I’ll buy you a beer as a thank you.”
Kevin, Toronto, Ca
“Not only are his strategies effective, he is able to teach you in a way that doesn’t require you to sacrifice who you are in order to succeed at dating. He isn’t like one of those sleazy “pick up artists” you see all over the internet, Nick teaches you how to build real relationships with girls you actually want to date.”
Austin, New York City, NY
“Nick’s insight is some of the best I’ve seen. He has a way of understanding you, seeing your interactions, and giving you clear advice. If you think you can benefit from a dating coach you should try it, and you should start with Nick.”
Paul, Cambridge, MA
“Just in our first conversation, I could tell that Nick was in a league of his own. Nick is not in this game just to help guys get girls. Instead, he’s helping people improve themselves. His advice has made me realize that every social situation is an opportunity to practice. It amazes me to look back at the person I was and see how much I was holding myself back. Fortunately, Nick was there to help me turn that around.”
Chris T, Worcester, MA
“Working with Nick was a great decision. The coaching was also highly personalized and I felt like Nick knew me and understood me. He is extremely knowledgeable both of theory and practice, and I found him very understanding yet honest when it came to my situation.
Nick tells you exactly what you need to hear in the best way possible and teaches you how to not only get better at dating but also challenge your irrational, negative-self talk that’s holding you back. He is a professional and a great guy and I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend him.”
Ron, West Chester, PA
“Nick and I went out on a Friday night and, as promised, we approached a lot of people, which is something that I would have a lot of trouble doing on my own. His feedback in real time was honest and thoughtful, and it touched on both the good and bad of each interaction. I had a great time overall and was pleasantly surprised when Nick’s followup email to me gave even more thorough feedback, which really gives me concrete stuff to work on. I am learning a lot and am excited to go out again, both with Nick for more sessions and on my own.”
Bret, Boston, MA
“Nick was great. Very helpful on many points, and responsive to questions in between sessions. He helped not just with dating, but also with general self-improvement. I’ve gotten better at vocal projection since working with Nick, for example. Looking forward to more great sessions!”
Lucas, Montreal, Ca
“Nick is a caring, considerate coach who truly understands the emotional trepidation that beginners go through and can provide great support and values to anyone who is willing to learn under him.”
Peter, Boston, MA
“Nick has a high energy, anything goes attitude that is a great motivation. He is always willing to go out with new guys and is able to give simple, understandable feedback. His genuine desire to see all of those around him master this stuff makes him invaluable.”
M.S., Cambridge, MA
“You opened my eyes to see that it is not about the girls, but about myself. Realizing that made me stop looking for validation from girls. Your tips on approaching and flirting helped me practice this and being a fun and happy person. The way you helped me deal with my problems with an ex also helped in the progress of becoming who I have become, comfortable in my own skin.”
“When I said I was looking for the right girl, the “right girl” meant any girl who’d go out with me. Now I’m meeting tons of women, going on frequent dates, and I can connect on that basic, flirty level with anyone, anywhere. In short, Nick makes putting yourself out there fun.“
Steve, Davis, CA
“This was the best year of my life. Your articles and advice helped me overcome many social issues that plagued me most of my life. I continued to better myself, my dating life myself, get a stronger sense of self, self-expression, emotional diversity, and confidence. I couldn’t have done it without you :-).”
Ricky, Seville, Spain
“Nick genuinely cares about helping other guys out. He is a very positive and supportive guy to have fun and be out with. Find a way to go out with him if you can.”
Mike, Boston, MA
“Hey Nick your insight was awesome! You did an amazing job helping me understand what I needed to do to improve my life in an hour phone call! You are damn good at what you do and I can’t thank you enough!”
Robert R, Long Beach, CA
I routinely host multi-day retreats for men looking to discover their inner confidence and unlock their charismatic self. We learn in luxury venues and apply those lessons by talking to the women you want in the real world.
My last two retreats were in Dublin, Ireland and Barcelona, Spain. You can read about the experiences here:
Barcelona, Spain – How a Coaching Retreat Inspired a Social Revolution
Majorca, Spain – How My First Retreat Conquered Fears and Changed Lives