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What my clients say about me

“With Nick’s guidance and some hard work my life has been completely transformed in much less than six months. His expertise made dating go from terrifying, to fun and easy. The real surprise though was that this new found confidence improved my friendships, career, interactions with strangers, and more. I can’t recommend him enough." KyleLas Vegas, NV

“I met a girl that I really hit it off with, thanks in part to the things I learned from you. We just had a little celebration of our first 6 months! Your advice helped me tremendously on many levels. I feel better socializing, my social circle is more in line with what I want, I work on my self esteem by investing in myself, I determine my own value now instead of letting others do so." DavidBurlington, VT

"Nick helped me be my best self. I went from struggling to find women who I truly connected with, to being the guy in my circle who everyone else calls for advice about their love lives. Let me make this easy for you: if you’re thinking of working with Nick, do it. Your future self (and your next lover and all the people you interact with along the way) will be deeply grateful.” Jason ConnellProfessional Speaker and Coach

"Nick gave me great advice on how to ask out a girl I had been good friends with for a while. We ended up dating for a few very happy years and she is now my fiance! Nick’s advice was what I needed to hear to gain the confidence to man up and be honest with both her and myself. You are amazing at what you do and I hope you continue to help others like you have helped me.” Mark D.Naperville, IL

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How to Change The Lies That Define Your Life

October 18th, 2017 by Nick Notas 6 Comments

You are whatever you think you are. Whatever labels you use to define yourself, those are the limitations you face. That’s the only world you’re cultivating for yourself. “I’m not the confident guy women desire.” “I’m an introvert and can’t regularly be social with new people.” “I’m not good enough or attractive enough to do

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Why You Should Be Happy For Other People (Even When It’s Hard)

October 5th, 2017 by Nick Notas 9 Comments

To me… Happiness starts with the daily choice of understanding and prioritizing your needs. It’s about figuring out and pursuing the connections and experiences you find fulfilling. You won’t find happiness by trying to please everyone BEFORE taking care of yourself. To some people, this might sound selfish. But there’s a second part to the

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