nicknotas

DATING AND CONFIDENCE CONSULTANT

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What my clients say about me

“With Nick’s guidance and some hard work my life has been completely transformed in much less than six months. His expertise made dating go from terrifying, to fun and easy. The real surprise though was that this new found confidence improved my friendships, career, interactions with strangers, and more. I can’t recommend him enough." KyleLas Vegas, NV

“I met a girl that I really hit it off with, thanks in part to the things I learned from you. We just had a little celebration of our first 6 months! Your advice helped me tremendously on many levels. I feel better socializing, my social circle is more in line with what I want, I work on my self esteem by investing in myself, I determine my own value now instead of letting others do so." DavidBurlington, VT

"Nick helped me be my best self. I went from struggling to find women who I truly connected with, to being the guy in my circle who everyone else calls for advice about their love lives. Let me make this easy for you: if you’re thinking of working with Nick, do it. Your future self (and your next lover and all the people you interact with along the way) will be deeply grateful.” Jason ConnellProfessional Speaker and Coach

"Nick gave me great advice on how to ask out a girl I had been good friends with for a while. We ended up dating for a few very happy years and she is now my fiance! Nick’s advice was what I needed to hear to gain the confidence to man up and be honest with both her and myself. You are amazing at what you do and I hope you continue to help others like you have helped me.” Mark D.Naperville, IL

Read my newest articles

Who Has It Worse in Dating: Men or Women?

August 15th, 2019 by Nick Notas 6 Comments

I met two young women from Silicon Valley while on vacation in the Caribbean. They told me every guy they date prioritizes work over them, even when they’re together. One male friend told me he’s frustrated that women are non-committal, always looking for the next best thing. He said women talk to multiple guys at

What Happens When You Listen to the Worst Kind of Friend

July 24th, 2019 by Nick Notas 7 Comments

John has always had a good heart. Tommy has always been kind of a jerk. But somehow, John and Tommy have been inseparable since they were little. Wherever John went, Tommy was right there behind him. When John didn’t make the baseball team, Tommy said he just wasn’t cut out for sports. When John got