nicknotas

DATING AND CONFIDENCE CONSULTANT

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What my clients say about me

“With Nick’s guidance and some hard work my life has been completely transformed in much less than six months. His expertise made dating go from terrifying, to fun and easy. The real surprise though was that this new found confidence improved my friendships, career, interactions with strangers, and more. I can’t recommend him enough." KyleLas Vegas, NV

“I met a girl that I really hit it off with, thanks in part to the things I learned from you. We just had a little celebration of our first 6 months! Your advice helped me tremendously on many levels. I feel better socializing, my social circle is more in line with what I want, I work on my self esteem by investing in myself, I determine my own value now instead of letting others do so." DavidBurlington, VT

"Nick helped me be my best self. I went from struggling to find women who I truly connected with, to being the guy in my circle who everyone else calls for advice about their love lives. Let me make this easy for you: if you’re thinking of working with Nick, do it. Your future self (and your next lover and all the people you interact with along the way) will be deeply grateful.” Jason ConnellProfessional Speaker and Coach

"Nick gave me great advice on how to ask out a girl I had been good friends with for a while. We ended up dating for a few very happy years and she is now my fiance! Nick’s advice was what I needed to hear to gain the confidence to man up and be honest with both her and myself. You are amazing at what you do and I hope you continue to help others like you have helped me.” Mark D.Naperville, IL

Read my newest articles

How to Be Attractive Even When You’re Ugly

July 12th, 2018 by Nick Notas 4 Comments

Some people are born ugly. That’s not a personal judgment — it’s the truth. The people society deem as attractive get more job opportunities, shorter criminal sentences, and more passive interest from others. Less attractive people are often judged harshly and struggle to attract the people they want. Some guys can’t get sexual partners, making

The Fine Art of Fun, Flirtatious Teasing

June 26th, 2018 by Nick Notas 6 Comments

Teasing gets a bad rap. Many men avoid teasing women they like because they’re worried about offending them or coming off like a total jerk. These are valid concerns. A lot of “pickup” advice used to teach you to give backhanded insults (negging) to look like hot shit. You were told to be overly cocky