Let me ask you… When you’re really sick, who do you want by your side? When I was young, I often got mind-numbingly painful migraines. In those moments, I wanted nothing more than my mom to sit by my bed and massage my forehead until it felt better. When I was in my early 20s, […]
Continue reading: How Death Can Breathe New Life Into Your Relationships
Don’t. Get. Married. You’ll lose your freedom. You won’t see your friends. Worst of all, say goodbye to your sex life. That’s what people told me my whole life. And like many guys, it made me terrified of commitment. I knew that 40-50% of marriages ended in divorce. My parents split by the time I […]
Continue reading: Why Your Friends Hate Their Relationship (And Why You Don’t Have To)
The spoken word carries immense power. A person’s voice can start revolutions. It can captivate audiences. It can make someone fall in love. In the same sense, restricting a voice can have devastating consequences. Even when the person restricting it is yourself. I bet there are so many things you wish you could say to […]
Continue reading: How To Overcome Your Social Anxiety Without Talking To Anyone
Men get hung up when they need to follow-up with women. When it’s time to message a girl they recently met, just had a date with, or haven’t talked to in a while – they panic. They tell me they totally blank on what to say next. They want to write a perfect, charming message […]
Continue reading: How To Send Follow Up Messages That Lead To Dates
I love hearing romantic success stories. Even after eleven years, I still get a huge smile on my face when a client shares their enthusiasm from a positive dating experience. That’s why it’s so difficult when I sometimes have to challenge people on their so-called “successes”. It’s tough to tell them to temper their excitement […]
Continue reading: What’s The Real Definition Of Romantic Success?
I knew an outgoing girl who had a lot of guy friends…or so she thought. One day I told her, “You realize that most of these guys like you, right?” She thought that was preposterous. She was almost offended by the idea and adamantly denied it. She said, “They’re just good friends.” When I dug […]
Continue reading: Why Women Need To Tell Men When They’re In The “Friend Zone”
Our surroundings subtly impact our everyday life. Different environments have different effects on our state of mind. When I write, I like background noise and activity. So sometimes I work at coffee shops because if I’m alone in my house, I can find it difficult to be creative in total silence. When we get fired […]
Continue reading: How To Choose Environments That Give You A Romantic Advantage
The average American man has only one close friend. In England, 2.5 million men don’t even have that. Loneliness is the #1 reason people seek counseling. And if we don’t get that help, isolation can increase the risk of premature death up to 32%. So in the sea of New Year’s resolutions chasing love, sex, […]
Continue reading: A New Year Calls For New Friends
Today’s article is from my close friend, Jason Connell. As a consultant, he’s worked with multi-platinum recording artists, professional athletes, top government officials, and Fortune 500 executives. I also selected Jason to help run my confidence retreat in Austin, TX. Today Jason is in training to become a clinical therapist and meditation teacher. Without further […]
Continue reading: Becoming A More Attractive Man Starts With Your Mental Health
In theory, I’m a prime candidate for being a total loner. I’m an introvert. I work from home and I love to read. I have strong, controversial opinions that often challenge people. And sometimes, I feel like my AirPods are an extension of my body. Despite all this, I’ve learned to love meeting new people. […]
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