Gaining new potential customers is the lifeblood for any business. Sales is not only about finding new connections, but nurturing them and creating deeper relationships. So any good salesperson knows that it’s not about how many names and numbers you collect, but how you follow up with them that counts. As you can guess, this […]
Continue reading: 10 Ways Men Blow Their Dating OpportunitiesThis is a guest post by Mark Belden, the founder of The New Man Within. As soon as I decided to talk to her, my heart started pounding. We were running around the track in our high school gym class. I had been gearing myself up for weeks to say hi to her. I ran […]
Continue reading: How To Stop Being Socially AwkwardPeople give more thought to choosing their next Amazon purchase than to choosing their next relationship. When it comes to romance, everyone is in such a hurry. You jump into a relationship with the first person who shows you interest. You commit to being exclusive before you’ve even gotten a chance to really know each […]
Continue reading: Why You Shouldn’t Just Settle For AnyoneWhen I began coaching, I expected people to come to me with all sorts of problems. But I never expected so many to tell me, “Nick, I feel totally stuck. I’ve tried everything but I just don’t have what it takes. My life is hopeless, so why should I bother trying?” These people feel completely […]
Continue reading: How To Break Free From Feeling HelplessEverybody wants the ability to introduce themselves to someone they find attractive. Yet many of us struggle with this endlessly. We have “approach anxiety” so deeply rooted that no one else can help us conquer it. Because the only proven way to crush our fears are through our own experiences. You need to show your brain that… A […]
Continue reading: 18 Exercises To Overcome Approach Anxiety With WomenA client recently told me, “I’m scared, Nick. I’m scared that if I say ‘Hi’ to a new girl I’ll be a labeled as a predator.” “C’mon man, that’s not going to happen.” I replied. “Really? One of my female friends said that if a random guy even smiles at her, it’s sexual assault.” I […]
Continue reading: The Cultural Movement That’s Destroying Dating For EveryoneI’ve heard the story dozens of times. You like a girl who constantly complains about her horrible boyfriend. He does everything wrong. He doesn’t listen. He doesn’t pay enough attention. He’s rude and can be a real jerk. You’re different, though. She tells you that you’re the perfect guy. You’re the one who’s always there […]
Continue reading: How To Save A Girl From A Bad RelationshipWhen most men write their online dating profile, they go about it the wrong way. They pen a factual biography that details their life story. They create a resume that only focuses on their skills and accomplishments. Or they write a sales pitch trying to convince women why they should choose them. All three of these […]
Continue reading: Do’s And Don’ts For Your Online Dating ProfileWhen Hamlet contemplated life, he needed to answer the question, “to be or not to be?” But in romantic pursuit, we all struggle to answer, “to try or not to try?” That is the question. Every week you tell me about all kinds of situations… To you I say… You’re investing time and effort by writing […]
Continue reading: Should You Even Try? (For That Girl Or Guy)Why is there so much judgement towards the physical preferences of others? We’re all guilty of it one time or another. Think about these scenarios… What do you think of these people? How do their actions make you feel? Are you angry that they could be so shallow? Do you feel disgusted with how superficial […]
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