Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So a 34-year old guy can date a 24-year old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 23 years old…that guy’s a pervert. Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But many people in society still look […]
Continue reading: Older Men Who Like Younger Women Aren’t Creeps
Studies now estimate 14 million Americans are in long distance relationships. The thing is, long distance relationships are hard. And from my experience as a dating coach, most of them fail. But I don’t think they have to. The #1 Reason Long Distance Relationships Don’t Succeed A lack of physical intimacy. We all want to feel desired. […]
Continue reading: Not All Long Distance Relationships Have To Fail
It’s a god damn war zone out there! Okay, maybe that’s a little overdramatic. But for a lot of people, the current dating scene feels like a battle royale. We set-up dates over text that get cancelled last minute. We message dozens of people online and don’t get a single response. You meet up with […]
Continue reading: 5 New Rules Of Modern Dating
As I get older, I’ve become much more of a critical thinker. I used to be set in my ways: I’d form an opinion and take sides before seeing the whole picture. Nowadays, I try to look at things from all angles. I’m always trying to challenge my beliefs and the status quo. I’m always […]
Continue reading: The Good Side Of “Bad” Attitudes
“The job is what you do when you are told what to do. The job is showing up at the factory, following instructions, meeting spec, and being managed. Someone can always do your job a little better or faster or cheaper than you can. The job might be difficult, it might require skill, but it’s […]
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Recently, I got a call from the first friend I ever started going out to meet people with. We’d both built different lives on different coasts and it had been 2 ½ years since we last spoke. He told me he was flying back to Boston soon to see family and wanted to share some […]
Continue reading: 9 Bullshit Excuses You Use To Avoid Meeting Women
Few questions spark a more passionate debate than “can men and women be friends?” When asking women, you’ll usually hear, “Yes!” When asking men, you’ll usually hear, “Of course not.” or “Only if the guy is gay.” This sucks for many women to hear. It’s depressing to think that no man can be a real […]
Continue reading: Can Men And Women Be Friends? (The Uncomfortable Truth)
On a date, it’s important to ask questions that help uncover each other’s interests and values. But if you only stick to friendly topics, you only get friendly connections. You need to start asking more sex-oriented questions on your dates. This involves subjects such as romance, attraction, flirting, sexuality, and previous sexual experiences. “For women, […]
Continue reading: How To Have Sexual Conversations With Women
She said, “When I can’t sleep, I want you to stay up with me.” “I can’t do that. I have to get some sleep for work.” It was 3:00 AM and I had to leave for work in a few hours. The girl I’d been seeing for a couple months was an insomniac. “Well I […]
Continue reading: How To Break Up Without All The Heartbreak
During the early stages of dating, a girl doesn’t want to feel that you’re way more invested than she is. She wants you to be secure, not clingy. She wants you to see her as a person, not idealize her. And she wants to know you are choosing her — and not just because you’re […]
Continue reading: 10 Mistakes That Make You Look Desperate
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