I’ve noticed a trend among the guys I work with lately. They go on seemingly amazing dates only to never hear from the girl again. Or to hear, “I just didn’t feel any chemistry.” I’m not even talking about desperate “nice guys”. These are genuine, respectful men who really like the girls they go out […]
Continue reading: What Women Want In A Man
I looked around the club and saw her. She had tanned skin, tall black boots, and danced hypnotically with her girlfriends. I had to meet her. A dozen guys stood around the room, holding their drinks and leering. No one had the guts to go up to the girls. I wanted to be the guy […]
Continue reading: How To Deal With Rejection From A Girl
Being rejected sucks. But rejecting someone can suck just as much. Contrary to what many men believe, most women don’t enjoy turning someone down. It’s awkward. It’s intense. And it can lead to uncomfortable or even dangerous situations. Because of this, women try to reject others “gently” to protect themselves. Ironically, this usually ends up […]
Continue reading: How To Reject Men Safely And Respectfully
Yesterday I was on the phone with a long-time client, Jon. Jon told me how he finally feels like he’s in a good place. His business is thriving, he’s grown tremendously as a person over the last few years, and he’s casually seeing two gorgeous women. He then asked me, “So, do you think I […]
Continue reading: Should You Try To Get Your Ex Back?
During a drive the other day, I listened to “Quitters, Inc.” by Stephen King. It’s the tale of a married man named Dick Morrison. An old college roommate runs into Dick and refers him to a company called, “Quitters, Inc.” With their help, his roommate successfully quit smoking and got a big promotion at work. […]
Continue reading: Do Or Die (Literally): The Surefire Way To Achieve Your GoalsWe all know about the running joke that romantic relationships are a source of misery. We grew up on shows like Married With Children where Al Bundy hated having to hang out with his wife Peg. We hear friends challenge each other with, “You’re so whipped!” And serious couples give us ominous warnings such as, […]
Continue reading: How To Avoid Having A Shitty Relationship
No one likes being sold to. When I worked in real estate, I cold called people to pitch them on refinancing their mortgage. Nearly every person who picked up the phone was annoyed. Even when my offer was potentially useful, I struggled to get anyone to hear me out. I had way more people tell […]
Continue reading: You Need To Stop Selling Yourself To Women
What do Hollywood, religion, D.A.R.E, health class, and your friends and family have in common? They’ve all lied to you from a young age. Now I’m not saying these lies were all calculated because they weren’t. But even when your loved ones’ intentions were pure, they let emotional sentiment, tradition, or misinformation influence their advice. When they tried to […]
Continue reading: 8 Lies You’ve Been Taught Since Childhood
You may think that successful people have a mystical quality about them. Or that they’re in on some secret that you don’t know about. You see them lead abundant lives filled with friendships, romantic prospects, and even wealth. They’re confident. They’re “lucky” and good things always seem to happen to them. In my years of […]
Continue reading: 18 Traits of Successful (And Not So Successful) People
Think of an important goal you wish you could achieve. Something that really intimidates you. Something that you haven’t begun working towards because it challenges your comfort zone. That could be… Getting a job (or a better job). Making more friends. Getting in shape. Writing a book. Or meeting more women – both in-person and […]
Continue reading: What Other Choice Do You Have?
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