There’s no denying that some people NEVER seem to change. You probably know someone who’s been stuck in the same destructive cycle for a long time. They may make small adjustments in their life, but there’s always some critical pattern they can’t break… I’ve struggled with many of these points…and I’m sure many of you […]
Continue reading: How To Change Your Life Even When You Think It’s ImpossibleBack in May, an old friend emailed me to invite me to a private island he co-owned with some other guys. They were planning to meet up on the island and take on a few carpentry projects to make it more habitable. What a cool opportunity, I thought – I could learn some useful handyman […]
Continue reading: How To Be Independent And Still Have An Amazing RelationshipYou may remember my Conquer Confidence retreat I hosted with Julian and Kristina from LoveLifeSolved in Majorca, Spain this past August.
After months of grueling preparation to launch the biggest project I’d ever worked on, I finally found myself…
Continue reading: How My First Retreat Conquered Fears And Changed LivesIt’s a story as old as time… Attractive young woman feels on top of the world. Then, she hits one or more major turning points such as: What’s a girl to do? She meets this new guy. He’s not exactly her idea of a leading man, but he checks enough boxes to make it worth […]
Continue reading: Are You The Man She Wants Or The One She’ll Settle For?When it comes to online dating, it’s all about your pictures. Current smartphones now have portrait mode, enabling anyone to take photos with “bokeh”. Bokeh is the Japanese word for blur and more often, the quality of that blur. Still confused? When you’ve seen professional portraits you’ve probably noticed that the main person in the […]
Continue reading: Online Dating Is About To Get A Whole Lot Harder (And Here’s How To Prepare)Being scared often stops us from taking action to get what we want out of life. We don’t introduce ourselves to a new girl. We don’t send out resumes to get a better job. We don’t have that awkward talk with our partners about needing alone time. We put those things off and tell ourselves, […]
Continue reading: The Hidden Cost Of Listening To Your FearsLet’s talk about sex, baby… Or at least HOW you get into more sexually charged conversations with new women. It can be intimidating to take your conversation to that level, whether it’s in-person or over text. And I know the last thing you want to do is sound like some creepy perv. But please, don’t assume that […]
Continue reading: The Subtle Art Of Sexy FlirtingYou knew this article was coming… I went out with a client this weekend and saw swarms of people playing Pokemon Go in Boston. Walking down streets, sitting on benches, strolling through parks – everyone was furiously swiping on their phones. I thought about how incredible it was that complete strangers could sit close and […]
Continue reading: How To Meet Women While Playing Pokemon GoWe are constantly faced with challenging decisions in life. Frequently, we choose the safe path because it’s the easiest path. It’s the one that offers the most protection. It’s the choice that doesn’t push us to experience discomfort or embrace our fears. But that may not always be the right choice. Because the right choice […]
Continue reading: When To Make The Right Choice Instead Of The Safe ChoiceToday my friend Pete from Beard Strokings is going to teach you exactly what to say for the first 60 seconds of conversation in any situation. When Pete first e-mailed me, he immediately stood out. He related to me about his old days playing Counter-Strike, talked about how he loved my message of better human connections, and shared how inspired he was […]
Continue reading: Your Roadmap To The First 60 Seconds Of Engaging Conversation










