Earlier this year I had dinner with friends for some good, old-fashioned male bonding. And like many instances when friends get together… They all complained about their significant others. Many of their issues were minor; they were small annoyances that had built up over time. Some of them were frustrations that indicated greater underlying problems […]
Continue reading: Why Bad-Mouthing Your Partner Is A Huge Mistake
Everybody wants sex. (Okay, almost everybody. There are an estimated 1% of people who identify as asexual.) But as for the rest of us, we all want to get down. Even the people you’d least expect… The shy guy who you think is so sweet and couldn’t possibly have a naughty mind. The religious girl […]
Continue reading: When You Should And Shouldn’t Try For Sex
Today’s article is from my good friend Jason Connell. Jason has a rare gift: he makes people feel like the best version of themselves. This skill has created amazing opportunities for him. Jason consults for millionaires, politicians, athletes, and professional entertainers. He’s dated models with Ivy League educations. And shortly after moving to Denver, Colorado, […]
Continue reading: 4 Important Lessons Embarrassing Dates Taught Me
Everyone wants to be happy. But after reflecting on the hundreds of conversations I’ve had in 2016, something became quite clear to me… A lot of people don’t feel happy on a day-to-day basis. And that’s devastating to me. So, my goal is to make 2017 the year where you find lifelong happiness. I know […]
Continue reading: The New Year’s Resolution That Matters Most
We all know that practice makes perfect. And like anything else, working on your romantic skills will help you attract more people and build stronger connections. The tricky part, though, is that practicing this stuff comes with high stakes. When you’re learning something like piano, messing up is no big deal. You sound terrible for […]
Continue reading: The No-Risk Method To Dating Mastery
Hiding behind a device has made it INFINITELY easier for all of us to be, for lack of a better word, “flakes”. I don’t mean flake as a judgment of someone’s character. I’m talking about anyone – guy or girl – who makes plans with people but then always cancels on them. The flaking phenomenon […]
Continue reading: We All Need To Stop Flaking
A lot of men tell me the hardest part of meeting women is not having a friend to go out with. They say… All their friends are in a relationship or married. Or their buddies don’t like to go out to socialize and meet new people. Or, everyone they know is afraid to cold approach women. […]
Continue reading: A Woman May Be Your Perfect Wingman
The idea of “getting permission” in dating has become a hot social topic the last few years. Many women are adamant that they would not allow someone to make a move on them without their explicit consent. I’m not here to argue for sex without explicit consent. However, this need for stated permission is being […]
Continue reading: How Much Permission Do You Need To Make A Move?
Before I became a dating coach for men, nothing was more exciting than the rush of flirting with a new girl over text. It always felt like the start of something good. I also remember that nothing was more nerve-racking than waiting for a reply. And waiting. And when she never replied at all — […]
Continue reading: 5 Things To Do When She Doesn’t Text You Back
Even though millennials are having less sex than past generations, there’s no denying we’re in a hookup culture. Marriages are starting later and later. More men and women are opting not to have children. And a lot of people date around before ever deciding to get into a serious relationship. Many may feel that this […]
Continue reading: Stop Delaying Your Inevitable Breakup
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