I watched my wife play at Carnegie Hall in New York City two weeks ago. I ended up in a box seat with a family of four. I said hello and we talked about how incredible the venue looked. At some point, I asked, “Do you have someone performing here tonight?” One older woman pointed […]
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Some men seem to have natural, effortless charm with women. And I bet if you ask them what they’re thinking about when they’re meeting new women or on a date, they’ll say something like… “I’m just looking to have a good time.” or “I’m trying to have some fun.” Their #1 priority is to enjoy […]
Continue reading: How To Stop Hating The Dating Process
A few months ago, I watched someone I care about succumb to cancer. He was my wife’s uncle. Even though he lived 1,000 miles away, we made the effort to visit him three times in under two months. I knew it would cost a lot of money and time. But this was someone who’d welcomed […]
Continue reading: What Happens When You Start Showing Up For People
Dave Perrotta is a Boston friend and dating coach who embodies the “just do it” mentality. Since he cold emailed me for an interview on his old podcast, I became inspired by his thirst for adventure. After college, Dave did what most people only dream of. He started living around the world and joined communities […]
Continue reading: 3 Mindsets That Make You Better At Sex
About two years ago, I had a vision sparked by my friends Julian and Kristina from LoveLifeSolved. I wanted to bring people from all over the world together to become more confident in themselves and create more fulfilling lives.
It sounded like a pipe dream. Yet this past September, I hosted my third retreat. This time it was in Lisbon, Portugal alongside Julian, Krissi, and Pete from Beard Strokings.
Continue reading: How 10 Men Learned To Believe In Themselves And Live Courageously At My Lisbon Retreat
You are whatever you think you are. Whatever labels you use to define yourself, those are the limitations you face. That’s the only world you’re cultivating for yourself. “I’m not the confident guy women desire.” “I’m an introvert and can’t regularly be social with new people.” “I’m not good enough or attractive enough to do […]
Continue reading: How To Change The Lies That Define Your Life
To me… Happiness starts with the daily choice of understanding and prioritizing your needs. It’s about figuring out and pursuing the connections and experiences you find fulfilling. You won’t find happiness by trying to please everyone BEFORE taking care of yourself. To some people, this might sound selfish. But there’s a second part to the […]
Continue reading: Why You Should Be Happy For Other People (Even When It’s Hard)
Being in sales has been a significant part of my life for almost twelve years. I’ve sold home loans, government technology, and now, I sell my coaching services to people who’ve usually never even met me in person. I love that part of my job. To me, selling means connecting with new people, discovering if […]
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Relationships come with challenges that don’t exist when you’re single. One challenge that’s particularly difficult is learning how to handle your partner spending alone time with their friends. And, in turn, learning how to handle spending time with just your friends, too. Maybe one of you hangs out too much with others at the expense […]
Continue reading: How To Handle Friendships While In A Relationship
It seems like everyone I talk to hates the dating process. They go through the motions because they have to, but not usually because they’re excited about it. They feel it’s a huge source of pain and frustration. And any time we’re forced to do something unpleasant, we begin to loathe even the thought of […]
Continue reading: 5 Ways Men And Women Ruin Dating For Each Other
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Below you can find the most recent articles both I and guests have written.