You want a guaranteed way to fail at something? Set limits for yourself. Once you’ve decided you can’t do something in life, you’ve already lost the battle. When it comes to dating, I’ve heard every damn excuse you could throw at me. Frankly, I’m tired of it. Every time you make an excuse, you’re just […]
Continue reading: Holy Self-Defeating Excuses, Batman!
I think most of us go through the phase where everything our parents say is wrong, stupid, and just plain irrelevant. For years my father’s words of wisdom went unnoticed, but I’m more than happy to listen now. Mark Twain said it well: “When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I […]
Continue reading: One Lesson From My Father I Wish I Learned Earlier
Everyone makes a big deal about first impression (rightfully so), but what about last impressions? Those delicate moments when parting ways are crucial to ensure you’ll see her again. I used to be so concerned with what to say initially that a strong goodbye didn’t even cross my mind. I hit a major milestone in […]
Continue reading: How To Make A First-Rate Lasting Impression
A healthy body breeds a healthy mind. Once I got in shape, everything about me changed – my daily mood, energy levels, and even sex drive. I finally took pride in my appearance. Now that it’s become a part of my lifestyle, I can’t imagine going back. In my previous article, I gave you my […]
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For years, dating experts have claimed that buying a girl’s drink makes you seem desperate and weak. I disagree. Buying her a drink is an excellent way to show your growing interest and appreciation of her company. It’s important though that if you decide to do it, it’s at the right time and in the […]
Continue reading: Don’t Buy Her A Drink…Yet
Think you’re the only one afraid of approaching new women? After college, I spent two months straight trying to meet girls, just to chicken out nearly every time. I can’t tell you how much I struggled to muster up the courage to introduce myself: my heart raced and my stomach was in knots. My fear […]
Continue reading: How To Fight Your Fear Of Rejection
With the long weekend coming and the 4th of July celebrations, many of us will be going out for drinks with friends. Since most people will be in high spirits, take this as an excellent opportunity to challenge yourself and meet new, quality women. After years of going out, you begin to notice the subtle […]
Continue reading: 7 Easy Ways To Meet More Women At The Bar
Sometimes, we draw inspiration and understanding from the least expected places. One of the turning points in my life that helped me comprehend relationships was at my father’s old restaurant. It was summertime and as a curious 13-year old boy, I couldn’t help notice all the beautiful girls coming in and out of the shop. […]
Continue reading: What An Ordinary Construction Worker Taught Me About Love
You’ve seen it on TV, heard it from your friends, and maybe even read it in a magazine…the so-called “Three Day Rule”. The rule stipulates that after flirting with a girl and getting her number, you should wait three days before initiating contact. This way you don’t look needy, too attached, and can play it […]
Continue reading: Breaking The Three Day Rule
Let’s face it, confidence is the most attractive quality in a man. For most women, a man with a strong head on his shoulders is more important than superficial factors like looks or money. I know it’s hard to believe, but it’s true. After years of working on myself, I’ve realized that there are a […]
Continue reading: 50 Signs Of A Confident Man
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