This guest post is by Doug Haines of The London School of Attraction. Online dating can be pretty frustrating. It takes a while to put up a profile and message the girls you like. If you find that you aren’t getting any replies, the whole thing can seem like a waste of time. Fortunately, you […]
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Great orators have the power to inspire the world. They lead with a strong presence and a confident voice that commands attention. Could you imagine if Martin Luther King or John F. Kennedy mumbled with timid voices? How you speak determines how people respond to you. Not just women you’re interested in, but friends, strangers, […]
Continue reading: How To Develop A Confident, Attractive VoiceThere I am, standing in another Boston bar on a Friday night. Next to me is a new client and he’s starting to get nervous. We’ve spotted three gorgeous girls sitting at a table laughing and glancing around. “Walk up to them and be direct,” I tell him. “Say you thought they looked fun and […]
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We’ve heard it from every relationship advice column ever: communication is key. But what does that even mean? It’s like saying “be yourself” — great in theory but useless without context or practical application. For years I thought I knew about good communication. I figured it boiled down to getting everything off your chest. And […]
Continue reading: 17 Rules For Effective Communication In A Relationship
You like this great girl. So why haven’t you shown her how you feel? You didn’t touch her at all on the first date. You haven’t flirted with her or made her think of you in a sexual way. You’ve never steered the conversation toward intimate topics. You’ve never even tried for a kiss. And […]
Continue reading: Taking It From Friends To Lovers
I smiled when I saw this email from a friend working abroad… “I took your advice to heart and started doing a whole bunch of random stuff on a whim: wine tasting trip to Mendoza, gourmet cooking classes, tango, Portuguese lessons, and powerlifting. It’s really added a whole new dimension to my life, I’ve met […]
Continue reading: The Single Best Way To Meet Women — Really
We all have different identities, personalities, and things that make us tick. Yet at the same time, we’re not always that different from one another. In my never-ending thirst to understand male and female dynamics, I’ve recognized some key patterns. The guys who have healthy, successful connections with women have a combination of most, if […]
Continue reading: 20 Qualities Of Men Who Are Great With Women
A friend introduced me to a girl last week. I was walking with both of them yesterday, being my normal goofy self, when she stopped me short. She looked into my eyes and smugly said: “You’re always so silly and laughing.” She challenged me to see how I’d react. I didn’t reply with some lame […]
Continue reading: Childlike Isn’t Childish
Last week Thomas Edwards and I co-hosted a fashion meetup at Alton Lane in downtown Boston. They are a premium tailor with customer service and an atmosphere that’s second to none. They welcomed us into their gorgeous loft space, complete with high definition TVs, lounge seating, and fresh beer on tap. Spear-heading the talk was […]
Continue reading: Dress For Attraction: Tips From A Men’s Fashion Consultant
In my previous article, I shared with you my “selfishness epiphany”. I told you how I once believed going after what I wanted and needed was wrong. And it was only when I realized that making yourself a priority is perfectly healthy that I became a liberated, fulfilled man. Now I want to show you […]
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