Everywhere I look, people preach that passionless long-term relationships and marriages are inevitable. Women supposedly lose their desires while men are forever frustrated. They claim you have to accept your miserable fate and learn to laugh about it. That isn’t funny to me. The sad thing is, they’re often right. There are so many couples […]
Continue reading: Why She Stopped Sleeping With You
I’ve made many romantic connections with women. I’ve also lost many of those connections. I’ve met girls who weren’t into me sexually and gotten rejected in various ways. I’ve even had a date ask me if it was cool to get another guy’s number while we were out for drinks. All of these experiences have […]
Continue reading: Why You Should Learn To Walk Away
I remember when I first attempted internet flirting advice in the real world. I high-fived girls I met, called them silly names, and even got some kisses. I thought I was the man. I had girls laughing with ease. I could actually see their initial attraction and interest in me. I’d finally gotten a grasp […]
Continue reading: Why You’re Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are
About 20 years ago, the concept of a dating coach hit the mainstream. These dating coaches were specifically meant to help people create social lifestyles, gain confidence, and find consistent success in their romantic endeavors. Sadly, the barrier of entry was low and the potential return on investment was high. You didn’t need credibility or a […]
Continue reading: What Most Dating Coaches Will Never Admit
I’m sorry everyone, this study does not actually exist — yet. But my goal is to explain how it could be done and to examine the lasting impact it could make. Spending last week in Vegas made me think about how much money some people have. Everything there is absurdly over-the-top. From the lavish buildings […]
Continue reading: Study Confirms That Any Man Can Date Beautiful Women
Nine years and it’s almost here! I’m talking about the May 24th release of the fiyolm Before Midnight. It’s the third installment of one of the greatest romance stories of all time. But what makes these movies so great? Unlike many sappy, unrealistic portrayals of dating, they’re movies that you can actually relate to and […]
Continue reading: What Ethan Hawke Can Teach You About First Dates
On Monday, I sat in the audience of a packed auditorium listening to the brilliant words of Dr. Brene Brown. For those who don’t know her, she’s a social researcher who became widely known from her famous TED talk on vulnerability, shame, and building real confidence. In this article, I want to examine her findings […]
Continue reading: How To Turn Shame Into Confidence
Relationships, even casual ones, shouldn’t be thought of as a “game” to be won. You should be forging a real connection between two human beings. I’ve watched too many men stumble onto dating or self-improvement advice and see it as a temporary solution. They think “Oh cool, I’m going to learn some tricks and techniques […]
Continue reading: The Biggest Mistake Guys Make When Entering A Relationship
Why do fathers teach their sons to be men while mothers teach their daughters to be wives? I know I’m generalizing but it’s often true. As men, we have all these insightful laws passed down to us on how to be confident, successful, and our very best. But how many women are instructed from day […]
Continue reading: 4 Necessary Values Women Are Rarely Taught
Good friends are family. They aren’t just buddies we have a fun time with but people we treat like our own blood. They can be profound connections that are forged for a lifetime. I remember sitting in the car with my girlfriend and a close friend when he opened up to us: “Listen, you know […]
Continue reading: How To Be A Good Friend
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