You and a girl are back at your place after a date. You sit close together. You go for the kiss, she kisses you back passionately, and suddenly you’re tearing each other clothes off. Boom, you’re having sex. But sometimes, things are a bit more complicated. Many women are not nearly as aggressive or prepared. […]
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“No way, she’s out of my league!” I wish I never had to hear this again. I loathe the concept of a “league”. It’s destructive to your self-esteem and dating success. Yet the mainstream media, your family, and even you yourself perpetuate this idea. Since everyone loves to use this as an excuse, I figured […]
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Few moments have single men more excited then getting a girl’s number. There’s an immense joy in knowing you now have an open line of communication. Then reality sinks in. A number may be a green light, but you still have to get her on a date. And as many men come to realize, that’s […]
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Most of us have someone we feel completely comfortable talking to. That might be a best friend, a sibling, or even a parent. With them we can easily joke and maintain a smooth, engrossing conversation. Sometimes hours pass by in minutes. But when we talk to a new person, something changes — especially if they’re […]
Continue reading: Why People You Meet Aren’t Interested In You
I know the tune all too well; I’ve heard it repeated so often and by pretty much all the guys I talk to. You think you’ve got no problem dressing yourself, you have no desire to blow a ton of cash on your clothes, and you tell yourself that being interested in fashion isn’t really […]
Continue reading: The Big Mistakes That Wreck Your Style, Part 1
When you’re looking to build a healthy relationship, how do you make sure someone is right for you? For a long time, I had no idea. So I asked other people what they looked for in a partner, and I got answers like… “A sense of humor, attractiveness, intelligence, creativity, sexual compatibility, passion, an active […]
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We don’t just want great dates and great sex. We also long for a social life that’s fun and interesting. If you make the right friends, they’ll not only introduce you to other cool people (including potential dates), but they’ll also give you access to their lifestyles. When a girl sees that you’re surrounded by […]
Continue reading: 5 Practical Ways To Build A Great Social Life
Last Thursday I was with a friend at one of my favorite clubs in Chicago. He had another friend visiting: a 6’5” British guy with a deep voice and charming accent. As you can guess, he was a big hit with the women around us. And I couldn’t have been happier for him. If this […]
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Alex was a frustrated mechanical engineer. Every girl he liked saw him as just a friend. They never flirted with him and there was no romantic connection. Alex became bitter and angry towards these women. He blamed them for his lack of dating success. I told him to send me some of his text messages, […]
Continue reading: If You Aren’t Flirting, Neither Is She
You’ve been had. The world has convinced you of how impossible it is to meet women. Hollywood has shown that you need to be tall, fit, and handsome. Insecure men (sometimes friends) have made fun of your efforts. Even other dating coaches have said you need great openers, witty lines, or a precise formula. But […]
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