I was sitting around the table with a bunch of people who had “made it”. They were experts in their respective fields, six-figure earners, and successful entrepreneurs who’d worked with famous celebrities and politicians. By all accounts, they were the kind of people that so many of us can’t help but envy. As the night […]
Continue reading: Why You’re Pursuing Happiness All Wrong
A lot of guys determine their worth based on how many women they’ve slept with. It shouldn’t be that way, but it is. So naturally, guys who are less sexually experienced feel inferior. They’re ashamed because they aren’t “man enough”. This shame prevents them from getting out there and gaining more experience. And as they […]
Continue reading: Why Your Sexual Inexperience Isn’t A Problem
The other day, a friend was telling me about some of his wild romantic experiences. A few minutes later, he turned to me and said, “Actually, I’ve got to get something off my chest. Those crazy same-night sex stories I told you about…it only happened once.” That shocked me. How many guys downplay their sexual […]
Continue reading: Are You As Honest As You Think You Are?
This is a guest post by Dave Perrotta, the founder of PostGradCasanova.com. I’ve been lucky enough to live in four different countries and travel to several more. (Vietnam, Colombia, Spain, and of course, the USA.) These adventures have led to new friends, great business opportunities, and fresh perspectives. But one of the most interesting aspects […]
Continue reading: How To Meet And Attract Women In Foreign Countries
Over the last few years, my fiancée and I have met a lot of new people. And we’re genuinely curious and love discovering what makes people special. After hanging out with new friends, we almost always enjoy talking about the cool things we learned from them. Eventually, we both end up wondering, “Hey, did anyone […]
Continue reading: Embrace Curiosity And Connect With More People
When I met my girlfriend, we hit it off immediately. We had a few great dates and really started to connect. Then one day she suddenly began acting kind of distant. My expectation for a good relationship included healthy and steady communication. So the next time we met up, I said something like… “Not sure why […]
Continue reading: The Importance Of Setting Healthy Expectations
Our mind is incredible at constructing artificial limits. And while these beliefs begin as imaginary, they soon manifest into actual obstacles. When you tell yourself that you can or can’t do something, you then act accordingly. You don’t take a new risk because you don’t see the point. Why attempt something that’s impossible? By doing […]
Continue reading: 5 Dating Lies You Tell Yourself
I’ve written a lot about rejection. I’ve told you how to reject someone in a healthy manner. I’ve talked about strategies for coping with rejection in the moment. I’ve even shared my own stories of rejection and the insight I gained from them. One thing I’ve always advised is not to take rejection personally. But, […]
Continue reading: How To Stop Being Devastated By Rejection
I’m sure you’re thinking…”But they’re women! They must understand what other women want!” Nope, not necessarily. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t get a woman’s point of view on your dating life. But, their advice can actually hurt your chances more than it helps you. And this isn’t because female friends want you to be […]
Continue reading: Women Give Terrible Dating Advice To Men
Every day we’re forced to make decisions that impact our lives. Most of the time, we don’t think twice about them. Moments like… Grabbing what you want for breakfast. Choosing a new book to read. Picking out the color of comforter you want. These decisions are relatively simple, low-risk, and don’t cause us a lot […]
Continue reading: How To Overcome Anxiety In Critical Moments
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