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Take control of your dating life with my expert advice

I've helped hundreds of clients worldwide conquer their anxieties to gain lasting social confidence.

My success stories include software engineers, attorneys, musicians, graduate students, divorced dads, and men living abroad in a new city.

Your advice has changed my entire perspective on the way I deal with not only women, but with my outlook on life in general
Brian C. Chicago, IL


Most dating advice is wrong! It's based on "faking it" and not actually "making it"

Pickup lines and routines fail long term. I teach men how to attract quality women using their real personality and without having to compromise their values.

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Call or Text Me Directly At: (781) 473-0330

Nick Notas

My coaching will help you with any or all of the following:

Approach Anxiety

Nice Guy Syndrome

Meeting Women -- Day or Night

Confidence and Self-Esteem

Conversation and Small Talk

Flirting and Teasing

Physical Contact

Sexual Escalation

Building a Social Circle

Relationship Management

In-Person Coaching Programs (Boston)

Go out with me day or night. I guarantee you WILL talk to women -- lots of them. Whether you need me to fill in conversation or keep your spirits high, I’ll be there. I'll provide you with constructive feedback to improve your chances in the moment.

You'll also receive a written progress report via e-mail after each session that outlines your strengths and areas for improvement.

Approach Preparation$627

Get an introduction to meeting women.

  • Learn the basics needed for effective approaches
  • Thorough assessment of body language, eye contact, and vocal tonality
  • Design and execute a concrete plan of action for the approaching session

Package Includes:

(1) 90 Minute Approaching Lesson
(1) 2 Hour Session (2) Progress Reports
(1) Month Unlimited E-Mail + Text Support

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Half Mentorship$1027

Master one area of dating.

  • Conquer any sticking point such as approach anxiety or physical escalation
  • Pinpoint what's limiting your interactions and fix it on the fly
  • Get valuable experience talking to women with a trusted wingman

Package Includes:

(2) 2 Hour Sessions (2) 1 Hour Calls
(4) Progress Reports
(2) Months Unlimited E-Mail + Text Support

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Full Mentorship $1997

Master everything about dating.

  • Gain the full skill set of meeting women, conversation, flirting, numbers, and more
  • Achieve your short and long-term goals with constant mentorship
  • High intensity program designed for guys who want to make lasting changes

Package Includes:

(4) 2 Hour Sessions (4) 1 Hour Calls
(8) Progress Reports
(3) Months Unlimited E-Mail + Text Support

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Single sessions available. Focus on any specific skill or situation - $397 / 2 hours Get It Now


Remote Coaching Programs

Talk to me and we'll overcome the obstacles you're facing. I'll uncover your limiting beliefs, determine what's holding you back from success, and give tailored exercises for you to apply. My advice will teach you how to set goals and achieve real-world results.

You'll also receive a written progress report after each session that outlines your strengths and areas for improvement.

Online Dating Overhaul$377

  • Create a profile that has women messaging you
  • Learn to write messages that turn into dates
  • Choose your most attractive photos
  • Spend less time frustrated and more time meeting women

Package Includes:

(1) 1 Hour Call (1) Full Profile Analysis + Revision (8) Tailored First Messages
Photo Selection + Enhancement

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Meet Women Anywhere$477

  • Eliminate the anxiety of meeting new people
  • Make powerful first impressions through confident body language and eye contact
  • Know exactly what to say without memorized lines
  • Get phone numbers and start setting up dates regularly

Package Includes:

(3) 1 Hour Calls (3) Progress Reports
(2) Months Unlimited E-mail + Text Support

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Goodbye Friend Zone $777

  • Conquer your sexual anxiety and shame
  • Flirt effortlessly to build sexual attraction
  • Use physical contact that escalates to intimacy
  • Stop missing sexual opportunities and overcome “nice guy” habits that turn women off

Package Includes:

(5) 1 Hour Calls (5) Progress Reports
(3) Months Unlimited E-mail + Text Support

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Single sessions available. Focus on any specific skill or situation - $177 / hour Get It Now


100% Money Back Guarantee

We're working together because I want you to experience real dating success. If you feel you haven't achieved results within 30 days, I will refund your money without hesitation. That's my promise.

Want to know which coaching package is best for you?

Contact me for a free dating diagnostic.

I love helping people out. The best way to do that is by understanding what you're looking for and how to get you there. I tailor my coaching advice to each client.

From this 100% confidential diagnostic I will help you:

Clearly understand what's holding you back with women.

Design a plan of action to attract and connect with the type of women you want.

Learn to make dating and meeting women a fun and enjoyable experience.

What's included:

A phone or Skype call directly with me (Up to 20 minutes).

An in-depth analysis of your sticking points.

A follow-up email with tips to implement and recommended coaching details.

Additional articles and resources related to your specific needs.

I'll contact you within 72 hours to setup a call time that works for both us.

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What My Clients Have To Say

Your advice turned me around. I went from the shy guy at the party/bar to the outgoing one. My friends can't believe the difference! I'm now the one the guys go to on advice on approaching girls, it's kind of nice.

Anyways, I just wanted to say thanks. You've changed my life in more ways than one.
Kevin — Toronto, Canada

Just in our first conversation, I could tell that Nick was in a league of his own. Nick is not in this game just to help guys get girls. Instead, he's helping people improve themselves. His advice has made me realize that every social situation is an opportunity to practice.

It amazes me to look back at the person I was and see how much I was holding myself back. Fortunately, Nick was there to help me turn that around.
Chris — Worcester, MA

Nick and I went out and, as promised, we approached a lot of people, which is something that I would have a lot of trouble doing on my own. His feedback in real time was honest and thoughtful, and it touched on both the good and bad of each interaction.

I had a great time overall and was pleasantly surprised when Nick’s followup email to me gave even more thorough feedback, which really gives me concrete stuff to work on.
Bret — Boston, MA

You opened my eyes to see that it is not about the girls, but about myself. Realizing that made me stop looking for validation from girls. Your tips on approaching and flirting helped me practice this and being a fun and happy person.

The way you helped me deal with my problems with an ex also helped in the progress of becoming who I have become, comfortable in my own skin.
Dom — Netherlands