You see an attractive woman walking her dog. Or grabbing coffee. Or reading a book in the park.
How do you get from “Wow that is a stranger I would maybe like to get to know better” to having an official, scheduled date with them?
Bridging that gap can be daunting. Especially in person. I mean, that’s why Tinder was invented in the first place, right?
A typical approach with a new woman goes like this…
Walk up to her. Say hello. Introduce yourself. Converse and get to know each other a bit. Maybe make a lighthearted joke. Get her smiling and suggest future plans together. Trade numbers (or Snapchats/Instagrams). Say goodbye and walk away.
That all takes just a couple minutes.
You don’t need to execute those steps perfectly. You don’t need to be the wittiest, most charming, super suave man imaginable. Human connection doesn’t have an exact formula.
But…there are a few crucial concepts that will inspire a woman to want to see you again. You want her to leave the conversation with a positive, lasting memory in her mind. That way she’ll look forward to your future plans and be much more likely to follow through.