Everyone’s looking for a quick fix that’ll get them more dates. What’s the point of investing time and effort when you can just take a shortcut?
A lot of men who struggle to connect with women get frustrated and look for the easy way out. They eventually have a Eureka! moment like…
“Hey, I should just be an asshole all the time!”
I mean, I see how it kind of makes sense from their point of view.
In college, cocky frat guys get laid like rock stars. Go to a bar and you often see the loudest, most obnoxious guy making out with girls by the end of the night. And everyone has a friend who treats women like total crap but always has someone to go home with.
They assume that their own lack of success is due to them being too nice. So they think they just have to stop caring about girls they meet. They need to treat them as sexual conquests and nothing more. They have to put them down, ignore them, and make them jealous by sleeping with other women.
Basically, they must become an arrogant narcissist. If they do that, all their problems with women will be solved.